A marital separation is a time
of turmoil for everyone involved. Regardless of the length of marriage,
who left whom, whether or not there are children or how old they are,
the separation signifies a rupture in the marital relationship. The
family unit can never be the same. It is a time when those going through
it need the support of friends and family.
Here are a few tips, excerpted from our free pamphlet:
- Don't try to figure out who is the "Good Guy" and
who is the "Bad Guy."
- Express your concern, just as you would about any other life
event.
- Call or write periodically.
- Continue to include the person in social gatherings, but don't
invite both partners to the same event.
- Give a hug.
- Offer to go with the person to an attorney.
- Listen. Listen. Listen some more.
The full pamphlet is available free upon request and in quantity.
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To see a useful list of helpful readings, follow this
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(Note: This list is for personal use only to help you or some one
you love through difficult times and is not to be used for any other
purpose.)
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